You might say Remy Drabkin has had wine in her blood since she was a young child. “I’ve always wanted to be a winemaker,” she says, “even back when I was 6 years old.”
The founder of Remy Wines and former mayor of McMinnville, Drabkin is a leading organizer of the Willamette Valley’s Wine Country Pride, which sponsors events and raises funds for LGBTQ+ organizations. In 2006 she fulfilled her lifelong dream and established Remy Wines in a dapper early-1900s farmhouse in the Dundee Hills, about 10 miles from McMinnville. The eco-consciously designed winery is known for its innovative spirit and vibrant, Italian-inspired blends. Here’s how to visit the winery and participate in some of the meaningful initiatives supporting queer winemakers and their allies.
From Picking Grapes to Promoting Inclusivity
Drabkin grew up around some of the valley’s most renowned vineyards. “My parents’ friends were a lot of the founding pioneers of the Oregon wine industry,” she says, fondly remembering the community spirit fostered by this close-knit social circle. “We would show up to help pick fruit.”
This supportive community also fostered a sense of civic engagement in the young woman, and her parents would take her to volunteer making calls for diversity initiatives as early as middle school. This passion eventually led to stints on the McMinnville Planning Commission and McMinnville City Council. From 2022 through 2024, she served as mayor of the city. She’s also been on the Oregon Wine Board of Directors and has played a crucial role in city committees on affordable housing and on diversity, equity and inclusion.
Celebrate Wine Country Pride Year-Round
In 2020, concerned about the lack of access to queer community spaces and events in the Willamette Valley, Drabkin and other LGBTQ+ locals and allies came up with a plan to create a Pride celebration. “A bunch of us got together and threw a fabulous COVID-safe outdoor event at Remy Wines,” she recalls.
Now known as Pride on Third and held in downtown McMinnville, this all-ages annual street fair takes place in late June and features local art and food vendors, music and dancing, a pet parade, drag bingo, community organizations, and more. Typically held the week before Pride on Third, Newberg Pride features a 5K run/walk, a kids’ parade, food trucks, music and other festivities. And Purchase with Purpose is a monthlong June Pride Month campaign during which several Willamette Valley businesses each sell a special product; proceeds help to support Wine Country Pride and its many charitable initiatives.
Wine Country Pride has been so enthusiastically received that it now hosts inclusive events throughout the year, including drag shows, community fairs and what has evolved into one of the valley’s signature celebrations, the fabulous Winter Ball in mid-December at Carlton’s Abbey Road Farm. Check the online calendar for details on all the organization’s events.
Experimenting With Wine Varieties
Still eager to find ways to forge alliances and promote inclusivity, Drabkin organized Queer Wine Fest in 2022 with the aim of “elevating and giving a platform to queer producers who contribute to the world of wine.” The fifth and final gathering will take place June 28, 2026, at Remy Wines and will once again bring together around 20 LGBTQ+ owners, makers and vineyard managers from throughout the United States. Visitors are invited to enjoy food, listen to music from the acclaimed Portland-based band Camp Crush, attend a curated art show, and sample some of the world’s finest queer-made and queer-grown wine, including Augustina Cellars in Newberg, Bryn Mawr Vineyards in Salem, Elk Cove Vineyards in Gaston, St. Innocent Winery in Jefferson and Maloof Wines in Forest Grove.
Drabkin describes the final event as “our graduation.”
“We’ve accomplished what we set out to do, and we’ve elevated the identity of queer people within the winemaking industry,” she says. Although this joyful celebration will be the last of its kind, she notes that it’s always possible there could be a reunion someday, or that others may eventually decide to continue the event in one form or another. And she points out that there are other LGBTQ+ wine events taking place around the country, including Portland’s own Made With Pride, a queer wine-and-food festival held in mid-June.
“One thing I’ve noticed is that queer winemakers tend to experiment a lot with unusual varietals,” says Drabkin. Indeed, Remy Wines differs from the Willamette Valley’s many pinot noir-focused vineyards by focusing primarily on northern Italian grapes — think sangiovese, nebbiolo, lagrein and dolcetto — crafted in the 5,000-square-foot winemaking facility next to the farmhouse.
Guests can sample the winery’s vibrant, Italian-inspired blends in the cozy, warmly lighted tasting room or outside on a tree-shaded lawn that’s often the site of special events, from opera performances to concerts by the Portland Lesbian Choir to festive picnics.
Tastes to Savor in McMinnville and the Willamette Valley
With its booming restaurant and tasting-room scene, McMinnville is not only one of the Willamette Valley’s premier destinations for wine lovers but also an increasingly vibrant hub of diversity. “You could spend a whole week in town trying all of the amazing places to eat,” says Drabkin, who mentions LGBTQ+-supportive Pizza Capo, the trans-owned craft-beer maker Bierly Brewing, the healthy and gluten-free cafe Good Food Mac, the welcoming Mexican restaurant Abuela’s Nuestra Cocina, the upbeat Spanish tapas and paella spot La Rambla, and the community-driven artisan dining and shopping destination Mac Market. Retail notables include Mes Amies clothier, which carries Pride-related gifts, and Alchemist’s Jam & Bakery, where you can stock up on delectable small-batch fruit spreads and sublime pastries and savory breads. You’ll want to overnight or spend a weekend to experience it all — the hip and luxurious Atticus Hotel and Tributary Hotel make a getaway even more tempting. In the surrounding area, Drabkin also recommends inclusive eateries like the contemporary farm-to-table Hayward in Carlton and Juanita’s Café y Nevería in Dayton.
Though the Willamette Valley’s wine country is delightful all year round, fall harvest is a particularly nice time to visit. An air of festivity surrounds the region as many wineries hold harvest weekends, grape stomps and special dinners. Apple orchards and pumpkin patches thrill visitors of every generation. Check the online calendar of the Willamette Valley Visitors Association for a full list of fall events.
